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I'm in Wikipedia! And other random tidbits.

October 28th, 2009

Tidbit #1 – I'm in Wikipedia.

And, by "in" Wikipedia I mean that I was part of the "group of climbers" that aided an injured climber in one of the listed accidents. It remains one of the most memorable experiences of my life.

Tidbit #2 – I'm writing a novel in November.

Don't you love that conviction? November means National Novel Writing Month. I first learned about NaNoWriMo in November 2004. My friend and Declutter Happy Hour co-teacher, Janine Adams told me about it and somehow convinced me to do it with her.

The conversations went something like this:

Janine: "It's National Novel Writing Month! It's too late to join the official one, but I want to do it in December."

Me: "Cool."

Janine: "You should do it too."

Me: "Okay."

I must have been weakened by all the arm twisting, because that was an insane idea.

I had no experience writing fiction, unless you count poorly researched college term papers and that play my friends and I wrote in six grade. (It was a modern re-telling of the Cinderella story. But instead of a gown and glass slippers Cyndi wore San Francisco Riding Gear and Sbiccas, and went to a disco and danced to music from Saturday Night Fever.)

Besides the extreme lack of fiction writing experience, I didn't have a story idea or even a character in mind for my novel in 2004. All things Chris Baty, founder of NaNoWriMo claims to not be a problem. In fact, that's what he called his manifesto and novel writing guidebook, No Plot? No Problem!: A Low-Stress, High-Velocity Guide to Writing a Novel in 30 Days.

He was right. At the end of December, I had a novel. Parts of it were barely readable, but some parts were actually kind of good. I was surprised that quantity over quality didn't entirely eliminate quality.

This year I'm starting with an idea. It came to me at the Taos Writers' Retreat. I also have at least one writing buddy, Janine's doing it again too (read her great post about it). And maybe most importantly, I fired that mean-ass inner critic and hired my dead uncle.

Tidbit #3 – November also means Thanksgiving

November isn't just National Novel Writing Month, it's also time for Thanksgiving, and the beginning of the holiday season. It's also the perfect time to get 28 days of tips, techniques and insightful inspiration to help you clear the clutter from your home. We're offering a $20 discount on Declutter Happy Hourthrough Thursday, 10/29.

Even if you don't celebrate Thanksgiving and just want a unique and inspired way to declutter your space, it's a great program. See for yourself what's possible. There's also a link for free help when you're having a clutter emergency.

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Listen to this!

June 16th, 2009

Today on Twitter and Facebook I mentioned that my to dos for today include:

1. Finish newsletter. There's still time to sign up before this issue goes out.

2. Make granola. My favorite is based off of this recipe. But I've tweaked it a bit. Way more nuts (whole almonds, walnuts, pecans!), vanilla, cinnamon and salt (coarse ground sea salt!). I'd be happy to share specifics.

3. Put finishing touches on the Declutter Happy Hour e-course. The class goes live on Thursday, June 18th. Until then use the code HappyHour and get $40 bucks off. After that regular prices for the decluttering magic that is the Happy Hour.

4. Listen to finches singing. You can listen too with this short audio clip of the music outside my window. Singing Birds

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A veritable smorgasbord of fun things!

June 11th, 2009

Oh my goodness so much going on here at Chez Where Did Spring Go?

We have climbed mountains. Literally! I finally reached the summit of Mt. Hood. I've been trying to blog about it, but it was just such an amazing experience, it's hard to put it into words. So here are pictures!. At 1,000 words a pop X 18 pictures, that's practically a novella! I'm sure I'll come up with some actual words though.

To follow that up, we climbed Mt. Saint Helens again. Nothing like staring into the crater of a volcano to create a sense of awe!

Here's a little video to give you a taste:

I bought a new microphone! Which means fun times coming up making recordings. That is if my neighbor ever stops playing that one damn riff he learned on the electric guitar last summer. Seriously. It's not even a song. It's awful. And he, I assume it's a he, but that could be bad gender bias on my part, anyway the awful guitarist, plays this same riff over, and over, and over. For hours at a time. I have been known to exaggerate, but this is not an exaggeration. Yesterday from 1pm until 6pm.

And finally, my wonderful co-teacher Janine Adams and I turned Declutter Happy Hour into an e-course. I'm very excited about this, because it opens the doors for anyone to take it anytime. Take a look at the info page and let me know what you think. Also, if it's something you're interested in, remember to use the Pre-Launch discount code HappyHour to get your special price.

In case you're wondering what I'm doing helping people declutter, check out my guest post on IttyBiz if you missed it when Naomi first published it.

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Spring Hike and Early Bird Price

March 21st, 2009

I'm just headed out the door for the first hike of spring. The weather report says we have a 50/50 chance of staying dry.

Before I go, I wanted to remind you that today, March 21, is the last day to get the early bird discount on Declutter Happy Hour. I hope you'll join us!

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Why Do I Care About Your Clutter?

March 19th, 2009

deskbeforeSince I introduced my new thing (If you haven't yet, check it out, I'm ridiculously excited about it!) I've gotten some questions about why I'd be focusing on clutter or organization. "It's not helping people create and do what they love," they'd say.

And, they'd be right. And, they'd be wrong. See, clutter, can block you from what you love in so many ways. It:

  • Takes up space in your home or office, so you don't have room to do what you love.
  • Uses money because you have to buy stuff because you can't find what you need, so you don't have money to spend on what you love.
  • Sucks up energy and brain power, beating yourself up over the clutter, so you don't have the energy to do what you love.

These are just a few of the way that clutter can block you. If you have issues with clutter, and many creative-types do, you probably have your own spin on these issues. And if clearing the clutter will help you dissolve the blocks that have been holding you back, then I'm in!

The other reason is that I know from first hand experience how much clutter can slow you down and keep you from what you love. Clutter has been an issue for me.

Warning confession ahead! That cluttered desk in the picture? I wish I could tell you it's a stock photo, but it's mine. It's how my desk looked this morning when I sat down to work. And you know what? I sat there for a moment, overwhelmed by all that stuff and I couldn't even put two thoughts together. I mean, creative thoughts about Declutter Happy Hour or writing a post or doing any of the other things that are on my to do list.

The only thoughts I had were of that voice in my head saying mean things. You know like, "What's wrong with you? Why do you always let things get like this?" Years ago this would have turned into a barrage of snark, leading to bad feelings that would have paralyzed me. But now I have techniques and professional organizer Janine Adams and the awesome ability to notice when I'm not really making things better by being mean to myself so I can take a step back, check in with myself, and find out what would really help.

Today, the answer wasn't surprising: deskafterClear off my desk and then start work. Concerned that the piles would take up too much time (they were at least four inches high) I set the timer for 15 minutes and decided that whatever was left at that point would get set to the side, and I'd deal with it later.

No need for that. I handled the entire mess in exactly 15 minutes. Then I could get creative with the teleclass, write this post, and you know, just think clearly with all that extra space on my desk and in my brain.

Oh, just in case you aren't on the list, tomorrow I'll post my last newsletter about clutter, complete with some steps to help you handle it easily.

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Coming Soon to a website near you! The one you're looking at in fact…

December 30th, 2008

In my most recent newsletter, (subscribe here) I shared with readers that I've been exploring how I can embrace a niche in my coaching practice. While it may seem like a good thing to have a market as big as, "I can help anyone who wants to make positive changes in their life," it really isn't unless you have the marketing budget of Coca Cola. I don't, so niche hunting I went.

Early in 2008 I honed in on working with people who felt pulled between their business and family lives. There is something really valuable to this, and I think there's a real need for it, but it wasn't quite right for me.

Recently I put it together. What really gets me excited is helping people do something they love, whether they need to discover it, nurture it, or develop it into a business. It all really fires me up. It uses so much more of my experience and skills. And how great to have more people spending time feeling good about doing something they love. Good for all of us.

After making this announcement, albeit to a pretty small audience, I started getting lots of support and encouragement and a few questions.

A couple people wanted to know how I went about discovering this. It was a multi-part process. First, there were the big things, classes and a retreat with Mark and Holly over at Heart of Business, and Ittybiz's Online Business School then there were the little things, like meditation and journaling that were supported and enhanced by two amazing things, Dance of Shiva and CDs from the Immrama Institute.

I've written about Dance of Shiva before. It's just one of the coolest things I've ever done to open up my mind (and nix the negative self-talk) and meditate and write and think and just generally be creative.

As for the CDs, they sound like rain when you listen to them. But they do something really cool to your brain. My summary of the official explanation is that they use binaural beat technology to shift your brainwaves into a deeper state of relaxation and create new neural pathways.

My experience? Listening to the Insight CD right after doing Dance of Shiva, and then listening to the Focus CD while writing, helped me really get in touch with what was important to me. Oh, and Immrama is having a little sale. Click on one of the links in this post, and use the coupon code IMM427 when you check out to get $10 off the Insight or Focus CDs. (The code is only good through December.)

As I mentioned in the newsletter, making this shift feels a teeny bit scary and a whole lot right. Probably should have my website rewritten already, but I don't and I want to start sharing this with people now!

I'll definitely let you know when the new changes are up.

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Getting Out There

November 13th, 2008

You may remember a little conversation we had about this self-promotion for wimps class I was taking. I took on the challenge to take off the big giant Queen Elizabethesque "I'm a professional" hat and be myself.

I think that sharing conversations with my FPS and the itchiness of one's feet (even if it is figurative) count toward this goal. And now I'm getting ready to do something even bigger: Put together some products so that more of you can experience me and my coaching.

And, I'm doing it with help. The same fine ladies that taught the Self Promo class are doing other awesome things, all just to help me. Okay, maybe it's not really all about me. But anyway.

First, the Dance of Shiva stuff that Havi has is amazing. It's true, the "hot-buttered insights" are delicious! And I'm having all these fab product ideas that will translate into cool stuff for you.

Secondly, Online Business School from Naomi of Ittybiz fame. This home study course is helping me figure out how to really bring you more good stuff.

The combination of insights and know-how are helping me create new ways for us to hang out besides this blog and in one-on-one coaching sessions. so more of you can clear out the gunk and get to the good stuff.

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Julia Child and Passion

September 27th, 2008

I've been having a Festival of all things Julia Child lately. It started when I read her memoir My Life in France. It's a series of engaging vignettes about her great loves: Paris, French Cooking and her husband Paul.

What really struck me about her story, is that she didn't care about cooking for the first thirty-some years of her life. She didn't grow up loving it, she didn't even have much exposure to cuisine or different styles of cooking.

But through her love affair with France and her husband, she discovered a passion for French cooking. A passion that turned into her life's work. She found it, not because she was out searching for her passion but because she was embracing life, trying new things, and paying attention to what she enjoyed and what she didn't.

The really cool thing? It's not just that she was a spy (she was), but that her first cookbook, Mastering the Art of French Cooking, was published when she was about 49. And her first TV show The French Chef debuted when she was in her 50's.

What's something that you love to do now, but have trouble finding the time, or something you loved to do as a kid, but is only a distant memory? How easily can you find a small way to bring it into your life?

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Twitter Angst

September 18th, 2008

I've been dipping my toe in a few different social media sites. You can find me on Linked In, Xing, Facebook and Twitter. I also am on Mark Silver's forum, The Business Oasis.

I've joined these groups for a couple of reasons. One is that working from home can feel pretty lonely at times. It's nice to spend a couple of minutes connecting with people in different ways. Even if it's just to poke a friend on Facebook, I feel more connected. I also have lots of colleagues and friends out there that are more than willing to answer a question, or help me find information, or just be a sounding board.

But, they can also be a bit of a time suck. (The sites, not the friends.) Of course, it's all about being conscious with what you're doing and why you're doing it. And timers. I'm not kidding I have a kitchen timer on my desk. I use it when I want to stay aware of the passage of time. (Not my strong point.)

The other thing that's interesting to me is the stuff that comes up for me while doing these things. I just recently started tweeting. Twittering? See, I don't even have the patois down yet. Anyway, I've been paying attention to twitter for awhile but I've been afraid to jump in. I didn't want to get it wrong. It's 140 characters, and it counts them for you. How wrong can you get it?!

That's the logical part of me talking, clearly not getting the 12-year-old part of me that wants to be liked by the cool kids. 'Cause you know the cool kids are the best twitterers in the world, and they'll laugh at me if I do it wrong. And they won't follow me and and let me follow them.

Well, after a little inspiration and a challenge issued from that Self-promotion for wimps course I'm taking, I had a very gentle conversation with that part of me, and we agreed that we'd try it out for awhile. If it's not fun, then off we'll go, back to buying my sister as a pet on facebook and making her pinch people.

Please friend, connect, contact or follow me if you're into that kind of thing.

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Challenges Redux

September 5th, 2008

Remember last week when I told you I was going to take on a challenge with the help of Havi and Naomi? Well, what I’ll be learning, as they put it, is:

How to promote the hell out of that cool thing you do without being gross
and/or getting tangled in scary, overwhelming horribleness.

18One of the hardest things about being self-employed is having to promote yourself. As far as I’m concerned it’s way easier to promote other people (see above link). Afterall you get to know them, you work with them, you dig what they’re doing. Of course you want to tell other people about it.

But when I’m talking about myself? Oy, different story! I know that the stuff I do is helpful, at least that’s what clients have said. I suppose it all has to do with those lessons we learned to try and survive on the playground about tooting horns and bragging, and whatever crazy things we tried to do to get the other kids to like us or at least not spit.

So anyway, I’m ready to kick those old feelings to the curb. If you’re ready to do that too, then join me and a bunch of other (I’m sure really cool) people this Wednesday. And if you type in havi when it asks for a coupon code in the shopping cart, you’ll get $30 bucks off. Oh, and just so you know, apparently the first 8 VIP slots sold out in less than two days or something, but I think they’ve added more.

Besides all this? They claim it’s sexy. Even sexier than playing guitar.

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